A Request

This interesting request landed in my inbox today:

I am working to increase the awareness of humanist and atheists needs and concerns among the military chaplaincy and the Chaplain staff at the VA hospital. They have asked me to present to the VA Chaplain's staff meeting on Feb 22. I have a question to ask of the group that gathers with you tomorrow....if there is time. 

If you were in the hospital, and a chaplain came to call, what would be helpful to you as an atheist or humanist? What would not be helpful? In terms of death and dying, what would be comforting and relevant? 

I'd appreciate any feedback you can give me. 

Let me know what you think in the comments and I will pass it on.